planning your family

Portrait Session

Tips for timing, choosing a location, outfits, managing kids and more!

I'm so excited to be working with you and I can’t wait for our time together during your session. It’s normal to be a little anxious about your session. You're a busy family with quite a few things on your mind. 

That's actually one of the reasons why I decided put together this guide. It covers things to keep in mind when it comes to choosing a location, outfits, prepping kids and more. 

Hopefully it helps you feel fully prepared for our time together, but should you have any other questions or if you need advice, please feel free to reach out!

One thing I’ve learned over the years is that our experience of our children is different from what others experience. For example, if you’re at the grocery store with your three year old son and he starts yelling, you probably think he’s irritating other customers more than he is. Most likely, those other customers just see a cute (slightly loud,) three year old. 

The same holds true for photo sessions. Your child is in a new element and a stranger is holding a big camera in front of their face. They’re likely not going to entirely be themselves. They may show off more than usual or your extrovert may suddenly become shy. 

Rest assured, it’s all okay. 

Managing

little ones

The best thing you can do for your kids is to go with the flow and stay positive. The more you relax and have fun with things, the more likely your little one (or big one,) is to get on board. 

It can also be helpful to pack a few treats and bribes for younger children. Favorite toys, special snacks and the promise of ice cream afterwards work wonders. 

I'm incredibly patient with kids and create a warm and inviting environment. 

Newborn

You’ve likely realized this by now, but babies can be a bit messy. It’s always a good idea for all members of the family to plan an extra outfit just in case. 

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This is a season when you might not quite feel like yourself. Choose an outfit you love and feel good in. I’ve found longer, a-line dresses that are nursing friendly are often the most flattering. Brands like Petal and Pup and Morning Lavender tend to have quite a few of these. Session days are also a good day to take others up on that offer to help. You are one hard working mama and if you have time to nap, shower and get ready in peace, you’re going to love these images evenmore. 

Dear Mama,

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While your entire house doesn’t need to look like it’s ready for Pinterest, I do recommend cleaning up the nursery and any places you think I might shoot. This might include your bed, the couch or a spot in your home with beautiful natural light. But truly, that's all you need to prep. I know you're in the throes of newborn life and I won't judge the pile or dishes in the sink or baby paraphernalia that has suddenly taken over the house.  

Preparing your home

backup Outfits

Feed and change your little one’s diaper right before I arrive. This helps ensure that they are ready to go as soon as I arrive. However due to the tiny size of their tummies, it’s also likely that they’ll need another feed (and maybe a diaper change) during the shoot.

Please don’t worry about pausing the session to feed your little one. This is normal! I plan extra time for newborn sessions.

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Preparing your Baby

If I’ll be photographing the newest members of your family, the following tips below will help ensure everyone is happy throughout the session.

Newborns

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I’ve found that there isn’t a “good” or “bad” time to take your photos. I normally plan sessions based on a particular “look” my clients have in mind, Golden Hour for example, or based on schedules. 

Sessions typically last about up to one hour (depending on your selection) and when I can—I love to begin sessions about two hours before sunset. I prefer to shoot when the sun is lower in the sky to avoid harsh shadows and bright sun patches. The first two hours after sunrise is also an ideal time to shoot.

I schedule sessions during what I believe will be the best light of the day - which means that it’s super important to be on time. If you’re late to an evening session, we could run out of light before we’ve finished shooting and if your session takes place in the morning, the sun gets more harsh as it rises. 

Is there a "good" time to take photos? 

TIME & LIGHT

Sunset & Bedtimes

In the warmer months, sunset sessions often fall during the witching hour. They may even fall during or after bedtime. 

As much as I understand the importance of a consistent bedtime routine, in order to capture the best light during "golden hour", I'm likely going to need to throw off your schedule a bit. 
If our session takes place close to dinnertime, I recommend feeding kids (and yourselves!) before we begin shooting. 

If your little one is going to be going to bed later, consider pushing their nap a bit that day, letting them sleep longer or packing PJ's so that you can quickly tuck them into bed as soon as you get home.

If your session takes place in the fall, while it might be tempting to dress your little one in a pumpkin costume to eternally remember the cuteness that babies in costumes in giant piles of leaves holds, I recommend  keeping attire a little more neutral. 

Yes, that image would crush it on Instagram, but if you’re hoping to print these images for your walls, will you always want to see that pumpkin costume? 

The same holds true for images taken for Christmas cards. While those red and green sweaters might be worthy of the Minted hall of fame, are you really going to want to look at photos of yourselves in holiday sweaters in the summer? 

If you’re looking for outfit advice, feel free to send ideas my way! I'm happy to help curate a wardrobe that not only feels coordinated, but that looks beautiful for years to come. 

Seasonality

things to keep in mind:

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Even though Spring begins in March, I typically don’t begin shooting for another 6 weeks because the weather on Nantucket is still pretty chilly. 

Fresh Flowers & Sunny Days

Spring

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In spite of the heat, I love summer sessions! Because of the later sunset, sessions sometimes begin as late as 6pm. If you’re taking your photos during the summer, we recommend bringing extra makeup and a few towels to make sure you stay fresh throughout your session. 

"If it could only be like this always"

Summer

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Fall is one of the prettiest times of the year on the East Coast and because of the perfect weather, my schedule typically book up quickly! If you have your heart set on a fall session, I recommend scheduling early!

"and autumn a mosaic of them all."

Autumn

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If you your session takes place during the winter, I could begin shooting as early as 2:30pm to catch the sunset. I recommend dressing in layers so that in between photos you can warm up. Make sure you bring a little extra makeup and tissues in case your nose begins running. Pocket warmers and thick socks hidden in cute boots can help keep everyone warm without showing up in images. 

snowfall, hot cocoa
and cozy coats

Winter

A few things to keep in mind during each season:

Locations

My favorite places to shoot

The best session locations are often meaningful to my individual families; however, I'm also happy to make recommendations. From beaches to trails to lighthouses and town, the options for session locations on Nantucket are endless! 

Brant Point Lighthouse
Sankaty Head
Steps Beach

CLASSIC

Jetties
The Creeks
Mr. Rogers

HARBORSIDE

Historic District
'Sconset Village

URBAN

Miacomet
Chappomiss Valley
Fisherman's
Starbuck

BEACHSIDE

The Creeks Preserve
Middle Moors
Lily Pond

Parks & Trails

The Endeavor
Hinckley Yacht
Wauwinet Lady

ADVENTURE

The above locations are all beautiful but I also love exploring meaningful locations with my families!

I know that some family members just happen to be furry and I love when families choose to incorporate pets into their session. Keep in mind that bringing a pet along often means that I'll need to choose a pet friendly location. 

I recommend planning for your pet to be at the first part of your session and having a friend take them home (if possible). I don't include your pet in every single photo so it’s also nice to have someone available to hold him or her in between shots. 

If you’re going to bring a pet, I recommend exercising your pet before the session and bringing your pets favorite toy or treats! Depending on your pet’s fur type, it might also be a good idea to groom them before the shoot. 


Managing

furry ones

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When picking outfits I recommend keeping in mind the word “complement” rather than “match.” For example, if Dad is wearing a blue and pink pastel plaid shirt, Mom may want to choose a long, soft blue dress. It can also be a great idea to choose “color-families,” such as pastels or jewel tones.

A good rule of thumb: pick 3 or so colors and spread them throughout the family. Don't be afraid to mix a few subtle patterns or textures (such as linen). 

And always keep the location in mind. If we're shooting in a green field, light green dresses might blend in too much with the surroundings. 

Choosing Outfits

for everyone

Heels lengthen legs but if your heels aren’t comfortable for walking or we'll be in grass, bring an extra pair of shoes to slip into in between shots.

I love the way larger patterns and textures (like linen) photograph - just be careful not to choose a pattern that is too small - it may accidentally make your photo look a little too busy.

Softer, pastel colors tend to photograph better than bright colors - especially since bright colors could reflect on your skin. 

Wardrobe Tips

for the ladies

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Statement jewelry is a great way to add color or pattern to a simple dress. Lace and tulle look amazing in photographs.

And dresses with sleeves are a great way to help slim arms. Depending on your location, you might want to consider a fit and flare or a flowy dress.

They look great in walking and photos with movement. Choose an outfit you feel comfortable in, but don’t be afraid to dress up!

Accessories

for the ladies

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Rent the Runway
Faherty (Nantucket)
Morning Lavender
J. Crew
Anthropologie
Free People
Jessakae
Petal & Pup
Pink Blush (Maternity) 
H&M 
Vici Dolls
Boden USA
Baltic Born Clothing 
Madewell
The Lovely (Nantucket)

Favorite Shops

Able
Zara
Mango
Nothing Fits But
Milly & Grace (Nantucket)
Hill House Home (Nantucket)
Reformation
Rachel Pally
Nuuly
Christy Dawn
Rylee & Cru
Clad & Cloth
Ivy City
Everlane
For Now (Nantucket)

for the ladies

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I think it’s so important that you look and feel your best for your photos. Investing in professional hair and makeup can go a long way towards creating photos you love for years. 

Professionally done hair & makeup last longer than typical hair & makeup. They also tend to hold up better in humidity and wind.

If you go this route, I recommend staying a bit “classic”. Now probably isn’t the best time to try out that new contouring technique you saw on TikTok. 

If you’re planning to do any spray tans or waxing, schedule those for a few days before the session to give your skin time to recover. 

Hair & Makeup

for the ladies

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You can’t go wrong with crisp button up. Or consider layering a blazer or sweater with jeans with this look. 

Be careful not to choose a pattern that is too small - it may accidentally make your photo look a little too busy.

Softer, pastel colors tend to photograph better than bright colors - especially since bright colors could reflect on your skin. Cozy sweaters layered over button ups are a great way to stay warm and stylish during the cooler months.

Wardrobe

for the gents

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Wardrobe

for the gents

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Rent the Runway
ASOS
Suit Supply
J. Crew
Zara
Southern Tide (Nantucket)
Vineyard Vines (Nantucket)
Frank & Oak
Nordstrom 
Cuts 
H&M
Urban Outfitters
Madewell
Lululemon

Everlane
Banana Republic
Mango
Alex Mill
Untuckit
Faherty (Nantucket)
Tuckernuck
Bonobos
Abercrombie
Rag & Bone
Murray's Toggery (Nantucket)

Kate Quinn
Zara Kids
Quincy Mae
Rylee & Cru
Noralee
Pinwheels (Nantucket)
H&M Kids
Crew Cuts by J Crew
Roolee
Alice & Ames
Borobabi (Nantucket)

Favorite Shops

Smallable
Fin and Vance
Little & Co.
Briar Baby
Jaime Kay
Spearmint Love
Gap
Old Navy
Boden
Hanna Andersson
Peachtree Kids (Nantucket)

for the kids

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The weather on Nantucket is not always 100% predictable and the 7-day forecast is not always accurate .  

I’ll check in the week of your session to re-confirm the time & location and weather. I know it takes a lot of time to get ready for a session and it’s the worst to get dressed up and drive out to your session only to have it rain. Let me know what works best for your family, but if the weather looks like it won’t be great, I typically try to make the call at least 12 hours in advance. 

If possible, we can reschedule to a different time of day, otherwise we have to move the shoot to a different day.

Inclement Weather

what to do if it rains

When it comes to posing for your session, you don’t need to worry about a thing! I’ll guide you through the entire process beginning with “poses” that are super easy and natural. If I tell you to do something that feels a little funny, it’s probably because I know it’s going to make everyone laugh - and that’s the photo I’m actually looking for. 

Throughout your session, I’ll keep an eye on your hair, makeup and outfits to make sure things stay in place. I want you to feel as relaxed as possible and enjoy your time together! 

"What do I do with
 my hands"?

"What do I do
 with my hands"?

POSING

If you have booked an extended family session (more than one household, grandparents, etc), I have a few tips to help make photographing this larger group a bit easier on everyone. 

Extended Family Sessions 

Tips for larger groups

Please send me all family groupings ahead of time so that while we’re shooting, I understand who should be photographed together. 

While you don’t need to draw me a family tree (although bonus points if you do!) something like this would work well:

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Grandma - Jean 
Grandfather - Max 

Sam (son of Jean + Max) and Tina.
Their Kids: Jason (10), Julianne (5) and Jack (2) 

Elizabeth (son of Jean + Max) and Paul 
Their Kids: Austin (9) and Claire (6) 

When it comes to choosing outfits for larger families, we recommend coordinating with one another ahead of time. Photographs typically come out best when families choose a color palette or a few colors over wearing the exact same thing (think: the white polo and khaki photo uniform of the 90’s.

Outfits that feel a bit special (your “Sunday best”) but that you still feel comfortable in generally result in the best images. 

 If you need any advice in this area, just let me know!

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When it comes to choosing a location for larger groupings, there are a few extra elements to keep in mind. Locations should be easy to access, limit walking and be safe for young children. 

While I can get away with shooting small families in a downtown setting, for larger families, I’ll need a bit of space to spread out. Family homes with larger yards (and open shade), parks and outdoor settings typically work best for extended families. 

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Following the session, I’ll deliver a gallery with the edited images. Please let me know ahead of time who should have access to this gallery. If you send me a list of the email addresses, I can set those up at the time of delivery to give all necessary parties access. 


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Entire family 
Grandparents + Their children 
Grandparents + Their children + spouses 
Child A + Child B 
Grandparents + Child A + Child A’s Family 
Grandparents + Child B + Child B’s Family 
Child A + Child A’s Family 
Child A + Spouse 
Child A’s Kids 
Child A + kids 
Child A spouse + kids 
Individual photos of all members of Child A’s Family 
Child B + Child A’s Family 
Child B + Spouse 
Child B’s Kids 
Child B + kids 
Child B spouse + kids 
Individual photos of all members of Child B’s Family 

Example Extended Family Shot List 

Please note that this list is just a starting point and that I'm happy to take any requested family portraits as long as time allows!

Yes, you are welcome to print the images on your own. If you do this, I recommend making sure that the printer does not color correct the images (many automatically do this.) I also recommend looking for a high quality printer. While 10 cent prints sound great in theory, the cheaper printing quality often won’t do your images justice. Paper quality, color correction and a handful of other factors play a big role in the way your prints turn out. This is one of the reasons why I LOVE offering prints to my clients. 

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Can I print the images on my own?

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I always make sure to deliver more edited images than included in your session. This way you can choose your favorites! 

P.S. My Signature Sessions have all edited images included. Please refer to my pricing guide to learn more!

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How many images will I receive?

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I guarantee that your images will remain in an online gallery for at least a year. While your gallery may stay up longer than that, I cannot guarantee it. Once your gallery has been delivered, I highly recommend downloading all high resolution images to several devices. Consider investing in a portable, waterproof external hard drive.

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How long will I have access to the images?

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While turnaround times can vary by season, I aim to deliver all images within four weeks of your session. 

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When will I receive my images?

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Frequently

asked

Questions

You are absolutely welcome to share images on social media. To ensure that my work is properly represented, I kindly ask that you refrain from any edits. I also appreciate image credits and tags as they help me to continue to grow as a business. 

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Can I share the images on social media? 

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By default, the creators of images always own the rights to the images. However I’ll give you a release to use, print and share your images. The only thing you won’t be able to do is sell your image as a stock photo. I won’t do this either without your written permission. 

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Do I own the rights to the images?

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The length depends on the photo session you select. In addition, please allow for enough time to get to the location. 

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How long should we plan for the session to take?

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I do light retouching on all of my images. This means that if there are any glaring objects that should be removed (such as a bump from the tumble your toddler took that morning,) I’ll remove it. Larger edits (such as removing tan lines) require more time and additional editing charges will apply.

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Will you retouch our images? 

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As soon as possible after your session is complete, I’ll back up your images and begin the editing process. Unless I there is a holiday,  you can expect to receive your edited, digital images within four weeks after your session. 

Your Images

When to Expect

I'm a big believer that images aren’t meant to solely exist in a digital space. One day, most likely, Instagram will be gone, your phone will be replaced and images that you can physically hold in your hand will be the best way to remember those precious moments we captured. 

Think about this fact: fifteen years ago, if I had delivered you digital images, they would have been on a floppy disk. With the fast updates to technology, you would have no way to access those images today. Even the online galleries I deliver will eventually fade away. 

But prints? Those last. I bet your family still has images from your grandparents (maybe even great grandparents.) And that was likely from a time period when cameras were expensive and prints were harder to come by. 

Bring Your Images to Life with 

prints

Perfect for those who value legacy. These heirloom albums are a great way to house a large number of images in a beautiful way. Leave them on display as coffee table books or protect them with a legacy box. 

Albums

Framed and matted prints are the perfect way to fill your walls with memories. With a variety of frames to choose from, I’ll help you select the perfect image pairings for your space. 


Prints & Wall Art

Details for ordering will be delivered with your gallery.

Easy to hang and easy to change out. Canvases are one of my favorite ways to decorate a space. They also work great on little easels placed around the home. 

Canvases

I know that this guide is long but hopefully it covers everything you need to know to prepare you for your portrait session. However if there is something I missed, or you need a recommendation feel free to email me. 

Thank you!

Barbara

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